Im passionate about helping...?

    I'm passionate about helping my kids reach their full potential in all aspects of their lives (Home,work, school,friends,faith).
    Their home life is apparently not as normal as I had personally thought it was seems alot of their friends don't have this they get themselves up and off to school with little or no lunch and when they get home no one is there to greet them because they are to focus on paying the bills and monetary/ material things why can't we all focus on the kids first they never asked to be created just loved.
    Their work life is non existent really as they are too young to have jobs outside of the home  there chores at home they do receive monetary value for more like an allowance to teach them the value of money and responsibilities.
    Their school life is very much a work in progress learning about preschool life as well as  learning that just because it's done doesn't mean it's done properly and needs to learn to add more content and description as well as effort overall and focus on the future and what they want to do with their lives when they're older.
     When it comes to their friends I allow them to be the overall judge and utilize the advice given about how to be a good friend and avoid peer pressure if at all possible and if I see some issues then I try to correct them and allow the issue to work on some live and learn practices.
      Faith is a very controversial topic with social media today and so I don't touch much on it unless the children bring it up or see something then I use that as a learning tool about faith and culture and how we can heal the world one step forward at a time.

we're all products of our environment

       When I was younger I was both shy and  nieve trying to fit into a world I didnt understand,if  only i knew then what I know now surely my life would be different from the one I lead today ,if  even one event happened differently would  I  be the mother to my children  I am now the  daughter  I  am ,would people still think they know me when they only really know the me I allowe them to see.
     When I was younger I lived with my birth family in a run down dirty bug infested hoarder home  with parents who were by far beyond any type of a positive role model to myself ,they lied,cheated  and or stole what they wanted or worked the system set in place to  protect and empower people to  better  themselves,however this didnt help me in my young years to be a  productive member of society  I was placed into the foster care system and forgotten by my family.
    Once I was placed into the foster care system  I first  went to an emergency room to be checked  and  processed then off to an emergency care home for the night then to what turned into my forever  home where I was loved ,cared for ,it was  clean  and I was happy and remolded into the social butterfly I am now with a new lease on life and positive role models to look up too.
     The home which I still call home to this day was located in a quite community far from the hurt and the pain I had grown up with The mother an early aged senior soon become nanny with her adult daughter becomeing mom both with hearts of gold they took me into their home and their hearts and  never thought twice about it and would gladly do it again.
       They and the extented family have become my family they are the ones who loved me and  cared for me and brought me up they took me into their home with nothing  but literally the clothes on my back and the heaveniess in my heart that no one expecially a child should have to feel they fed me  clothed me and gave me a new lease on life and showed me I dont have to be my old life I am fee to be me so be the best me I can be no excuses or limitations give my everything in all I do with 100% best  and do it with my whole heart and expect nothing in return and  know that I did nothing but my best and that was all they could ask for.I thought this was the worst situation ever because I was so used to the way of "life" I  had lived I didnt know that there was anything better out there I was programmed to believe the lies I  had been told filled with my heart with such pain I didnt think it could be repaired id been taken from everything I had known but it was a total blessing instead.
    I was taught to never take anything for granted to always believe in myself and never give up on my dreams because no one will believe in me if they see I dont believe in myself I was given oppertunities to have things that had I stayed in my previous situation I wouldnt have been given so  music lessons,joined multiple school organizations be apart of cadets all which helped to mold and shape the woman I am so not hateing and resenting have been set aside to the past and  now I do all  I do with an open and whole heart.